Many of us struggle to get things done at this time of year. When we have to work right up until a few days before Christmas, things can feel hectic. That’s why I like to step back and think about some of the things I love about Christmas time.
Being a working parent means getting everything done on the weekends. (Or after the kids are in bed.) And somehow it seems I’ve managed that this year. I always marvel when life seems to actually work out, despite my natural disorganization!
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Now that the big day is getting near, I wanted to share seven things I really love about Christmas time.
Eating
Do I really need to say more? From the beginning of December until well into the new year, my caloric intake goes up. This year I am trying to be more mindful of how much I’m eating, but I know I’ll still overindulge. And, at my past workplace, our customers would bring in boxes of chocolates or cookies because they loved us so much. It was very, very sweet but sometimes we’d have two tins of cookies, a box of chocolates, and some other homemade treats all on the go at the same time!
My willpower was awful when I was AT work. Now that I work from home, it’s a bit better. At home I occupy myself with different tasks, and food is away, so its more work to get to the cookies. Also, using smaller plates, and making/taking more vegetables helps me from eating way too much.
Drinking
In my home, I’m the only one who indulges in alcoholic beverages. This is both good and bad. It means all the alcohol in my house, I can drink. But it also means I often “drink alone” – as in not sharing, not really as in sitting at home, alone, having a glass of wine. (Though I do that too…) So over the holidays, I love getting together with the family and having a few drinks. It also means I’m quite easy to buy for! *wink wink*
Wrapping Gifts
Some people find gift wrapping tedious (my husband) but I quite enjoy it. One year I spent 5 episodes of Game of Thrones wrapping presents in one afternoon. And I wasn’t even finished afterward! But I love the beauty of a well-wrapped gift. Square(ish) corners, a nice bow or ribbon, and a sweet gift tag all combine to make an elegant parcel. Though sometimes I wonder why I waste my time when it’s all ripped off in about five seconds once the kids get their hands on their gifts!
Holiday Lights & Decor
While I’m not one to gussy up the house much at Christmas time, I do love seeing all the decor everywhere I go. When I was a kid we would take family drives around the neighbourhoods to look at all the Christmas lights. We haven’t made a lot of effort with our kids to do that – though we have taken the long way home when we see some in the distance.
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Having Young Children
When you’re a child yourself, you don’t fully understand much about the Christmas season. Yes, you get the gift-giving, family gathering, eating junk food, and being off school stuff, but you don’t see the wonder of the season from the other side. Now that I am a parent Christmas time is more special.
The girls still have an almost unfailing belief in Santa, Elfie Sparkle (our Elf on the Shelf) and every other magical aspect of this time of year. I love feeding into it: “Did you find Elfie this morning?”; watching Christmas films and specials; baking treats and wrapping gifts together. Seeing the surprise and wonder on their faces on Christmas morning is the number one thing I love about Christmas time.
Time with the Family
I know a lot of people gripe about families. And sometimes I do too. But really, there’s nothing better than getting together and relaxing with family and friends.
Whether you have a big family, or small, holiday traditions are special. I have both – a really large side of our family (my husband’s side) and an intimate side of my own. Both have advantages and disadvantages. But, both are also fun, loving, and unique. And they are often the people you can be “yourself” with the most.
And don’t forget to get together with the family you choose – your friends! We love to plan a dinner out before (or after) the holidays to see those we love but don’t often make enough time for during our busy years.
Giving
Whether you bake (or buy) some cookies and share them with your neighbours, family, and friends, or volunteer your time at a charity or soup kitchen, giving is the real spirit of the season. I love surprising people with something sweet and thoughtful at Christmas time. Often the smallest gestures get the most reward for the giver. When you give the perfect thing – whether it’s something you’ve handmade, a big, extravagant gift, or your time – it warms your soul. Or, at least it does for me!
What do you love about Christmas? Is there a fun tradition or something else you do as a family that warms your heart? I want to hear about it! Share with me in the comments.
~Jess
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This article was last updated on Dec. 4, 2023.
27 Comments
I love this list. This is our first Christmas with our daughter so we’re really looking forward to that. I love the idea of driving around looking at all the Christmas lights. It’s a fun thing to do and doesn’t cost anything. I used to love catching up on TV shows while wrapping presents but it’s been difficult to do that this year with a 7 month old in tow! #Familyfunlinky
We are hoping to get out tonight to take in some lights. I hope you have a great first Christmas with your little one. The wonder of the kids is so amazing to watch!
~Jess
Yes, yes and yes! I agree with nearly everything apart from spending time with family but that’s just because mine make it really stressful for me #stayclassymama
Families can be fun, but also too busy and stressful. We have 2 completely different family celebrations. My side is small and quiet, just my parents, myself and my sister (and our families) while my hubby has 4 sisters and they all have spouses and all but one has 2 or 3 children. Now some of those children are grown and bringing their current partners with them and it’s major chaos. But it’s still fun!
~Jess
Yes, I agree with all the reasons and I could add even more! I love Christmas time, especially the preparation and looking forward to it parts 😊#fabfridaypost
The build-up to Christmas is quite something – especially with children. Thanks for sharing what you love Eva!
~Jess
Hi Jess, quality family downtime and eating are what I enjoy this time of year. I do like a nicely wrapped present, so although I find the task tedious I do make the effort to make gifts look nice. Luckily I don’t enjoy a drink so all my calories come from food!
Thank you for linking up with #MMBC.
xx
Wrapping is so tedious, but the end result can be so beautiful! That’s one of the things I love and hate about the Christmas season. It also takes up a lot of space, doing all that wrapping. (And you often have to do it when the kids are out, or sleeping!!)
~Jess
Christmas is definitely so much more magical when you have kids. I love seeing their faces on Christmas morning. They always bring their stockings into our room and open them up on the bed before we head downstairs to see what the big man left down there. And yes, all the chocolate!
Thank you for joining #FamilyFunLinky x
The kids really do “make” Christmas. No one is as excited about it as young kids. This year was no exception for us!
~Jess
I do love the lights and sparkle of this time of year and I enjoy wrapping gifts to; with real bows and everything! There are many things to love and enjoy about the holidays and I hate that my to do list & stress over getting everything done often colors my feelings towards the holidays. Thanks for the reminders that it’s not all bad. #FabFridayPost
Stressing over getting stuff done is a real downer at Christmas time. Same thing happens to me most years, though this year I seemed to be organized. Not sure how that happened…
~Jess
All of the above. It can be difficult for various reasons but above all it’s such a lovely time of year and more so now I have my own little family x
#stayclassymama
It really is a lovely time of year. And having your own family does make it more special! Thanks for the comment Helen.
~Jess
Not sure I agree with the wrapping one – I hate that! #familyfunlinky
I’m hearing a lot of people don’t enjoy wrapping! For me it’s a love/hate thing. I like the beautifully wrapped presents, but sometimes it’s majorly tedious!
~Jess
For me the decoration has been my favourite. #FamilyFunLinky
I love the decor, I just don’t really love putting it up and then taking it back down. 😉
~Jess
Hi, I love this list to me it just about spend time with my family and having fun together #fabfridaypost
Family time is a highlight for me. It usually means my kids have other people to bother and I can sit down and relax for more than 2 minutes at a time! 😉
~Jess
awww, lovely list of all good reasons to love Christmas. I am sucker for fairy lights! Merry Christmas X #mmbc
awww, lovely list of all good reasons to love Christmas. I am sucker for fairy lights! Merry Christmas X #mmbc
The weather went bad on us before we got to take a drive and see all the lights this year. But we still saw a lot around our own neighbourhood!
~Jess
I agree with all and really think kids make christmas. It’s so much more fun and magical with them around. Thank you for sharing with #StayClassyMama and Merry Christmas x
Kids and magic go hand-in-hand. I hope your family enjoyed their holidays this year Pat!
~Jess
I think I have ate too much during this festive period. I just can’t move! lol! My also other fav is the decor. I love watching them lights twinkle. 🙂 Thank you so much for linking up with us on #FabFridayPost
Don’t we all eat too much over the holidays? I know I do! 😉 Happy to be a part of your linky Su!
~Jess