Valentine’s Day. A day of hearts and flowers, love and kindness, and too much chocolate. Also a day when you’re expected to be organized, fun, and prepared. But Valentine’s Day has no extra time, no changes of schedule, and no real reason for existing (besides to make people spend money!) If it were a holiday, with time off, I might be more excited about celebrating with my family.
According to Wikipedia, the popular account of Saint Valentine states he was placed in prison for marrying soldiers who were forbidden to marry. While he was imprisoned he apparently healed the daughter of the jailer, and signed his farewell letter to her (before he was executed) “Your Valentine.” Not sure that’s a mega happy story, but you can read more about Valentine’s Day on Wiki here.
When my kids were in daycare we always got cute crafty gifts from them on Valentine’s Day. As a mom with no extra storage space, most of those crafts have gone the way of the recycling bin, but they are always super sweet to get. Now that the kids are older it’s hit-or-miss whether they bring anything home. This makes me feel like I could skip “doing” Valentine’s day, besides helping the girls write out 20 Valentines each to hand out to their class.
But, I still want to be a “fun” mom, so I like trying to do something for these non-holidays.
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I’ve come up with a few quick and easy, last minute things you can do for your family on Valentine’s Day:
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Bring Back Elf on the Shelf
I know, if you don’t do the Elf, this doesn’t help you. But my kids love Elfie Sparkle, and she spends most of the year tucked up on the shelf in my closet, so bringing her out here and there (sometimes with a note from Santa) keeps the magic alive all year.
I search out templates or images online related to Elf on the Shelf and “holiday name” and either save them, then upload to Canva and create my own “letter”, or just print out something ready-made and leave it on the table for them in the morning. A Valentine’s Day Twist: find 2 leftover candy canes and lay them in the shape of a heart at the child’s place at the table.
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A Candy Treat
What kid doesn’t like candy? My girls love candy, but they are still working on the last dregs of their Halloween treats. If you have bits of candy left from that overwhelming haul, pull out a few pieces and leave them at their place. A Valentine’s Day Twist: If they ask if it’s Halloween candy, go ahead and say Yes, but then let them eat it for breakfast!
If you don’t have candy left over (from Halloween or Christmas) go somewhere like Bulk Barn – or any store at this time of year really – and get them something you know they will like. Get them one higher quality chocolate or candy, so when they decide they don’t want it, you can sneak eat it at another time. Sometimes my kids even offer me a piece, which is amazing!
Plan an easy, heart shaped, dinner (or other meal, as it fits into your day)
This tip only works if you are regularly home for dinner – otherwise plan it on a weekend. We only eat at home two weeknights per week. And since Valentine’s Day is on a Wednesday this year, we won’t be doing this. Normally Wednesday would be fine, but my boss asked me to work this particular Wednesday (it’s my regular day off!)
In my opinion, the easiest heart-shaped fun dinner is pancakes. All you need is your favourite recipe and either a mould to pour the batter into, or the freehand skill to cut them after they’re cooked. You can also cut bread for heart shaped toast or sandwiches. (I’d use a cookie cutter for this one.) I’m sure there are a million ideas on Pinterest, but I haven’t yet jumped over there to check them out.
I also reached out to my readers to see if anyone out there had ideas for easy and fun Valentine’s things to fit into busy lives. I didn’t get much response (so hopefully this post will be popular!) but I’m going to share what I did get:
Kimberly from The Rantings of a Drama Queen’s Mum: We really don’t do much on Valentine’s Day. It’s in the middle of the week this year too. I’ll probably make a special dinner & maybe have a glass of wine. We got my 10 year old daughter a few presents. We also have a bunch of Valentine decorations that we put out. I’m thinking of doing a You tube video or me decorating for Valentine’s day. I decorate our mantel in the living room.
Jessica from our local Ladies Learning Code chapter: learningcodeygk is running a make your own Valentine’s Day card workshop. You can read more about that, and register, here. (I know this isn’t really a quick and easy idea, but it looked interesting to me, so I thought I’d share!)
Natasha from OMG Parenting: Leave fun notes for loved ones on heart shaped paper in surprise places.
Caitlin from Snuggleosophy has a budget friendly post with some Valentine’s Ideas in it. Check it out here.
Let me know what you do to celebrate on Valentine’s Day. (It’s okay if it’s elaborate and totally inappropriate to fit into my busy life. I still want to hear about it!) Maybe your comments will inspire me to plan further ahead next year!
I haven’t even thought about this yet! We normally just cook a meal, drink wine and watch a film though…I can’t remember if we do presents!?? #familyfunlinky
That’s my kind of Valentine’s Day! We don’t do actual gifts, just sometimes chocolate treats.
Ahh! What fun ideas. My girls are on half term for Valentines day so we’re going to have to do something fun 😀 x
Very nice! I hope you find something great to do. 🙂
Call this last minute? I don’t think until Valentines Day until the day before usually! Love the candy cane idea, so sweet. Now I have a toddler I shall be roping her in to help make the card. But will try and do something romantic that is not related to parenting. Pancake Day is the day before Valentines this year so am planning to attempt heart shaped pancakes… #GlobalBlogging
Good luck with your heart shaped pancakes!
Lovely little gifts to add some cheer to a loved one X #mmbc
Heart shaped pancakes are perfect! Add a few starawberries and some melted white choclate! #MMBC
Mmm, that sounds great! What time should I be over? 😉
We don’t really celebrate Valentines Day as it’s also my husbands birthday and I think that’s far more important, plus I don’t go in for all the commercialisation of it. We prefer to do something special for each other whenever the mood takes us throughout the year rather than putting all the pressure on one day. That being said there are some great kids crafts out there and I love the idea of heart shaped pancakes for breakfast and maybe some heart shaped cookies for treats.
Thank you for joining #FamilyFunLinky x
I agree Alana – my hubby’s bday is St Patrick’s Day! And yes, way too much commercialization. But the kids all do Valentine’s at school so I try to something small at home too.
Lovely ideas Jess. I always do something fun with my boys. We do crafts and get the chocolate fountain out and dip our fruit chunks in! Any excuse for chocolate in our house 🙂
Thanks for sharing with #MMBC x
Ooh, a chocolate fountain! That sounds like a lot of fun. Only one of my girls likes fruit – but maybe that would encourage her to eat more!
I love pancakes for dinner – well to be honest, I love breakfast for dinner! #MMBC
Breakfast for dinner is the best! I’m with you. 🙂
Love your ideas especially an easy, heart shaped, dinner.
Thanks Veronica! I hope I can follow some of my own advice and ideas this year!
A card is about all that happens in our house! I’ve already started the Easter crafts and have completely moved past Valentine’s Day! #FabFridayPost
Ha ha Jenny! Valentine’s Day really isn’t a big deal here, but they do celebrate it at school so we try to do something interesting.
It’s funny after 20 years together we rarely seem to bother usually a card and maybe some flowers but that is all. Gets way too expensive otherwise. Sarah #FabFridayPost
We don’t do anything – my hubby and me. I usually just get something small for the girls. Sometimes Patrick and I will go out to dinner at some other time and call it our Valentine’s Day outing. But no gifts or any of that stuff.