Valentine’s Day. A day of hearts and flowers, love and kindness, and too much chocolate. Also a day when you’re expected to be organized, fun, and prepared. But Valentine’s Day has no extra time, no changes of schedule, and no real reason for existing (besides to make people spend money!) If it were a holiday, with time off, I might be more excited about celebrating with my family.
According to Wikipedia, the popular account of Saint Valentine states he was placed in prison for marrying soldiers who were forbidden to marry. While he was imprisoned he apparently healed the daughter of the jailer, and signed his farewell letter to her (before he was executed) “Your Valentine.” Not sure that’s a mega happy story, but you can read more about Valentine’s Day on Wiki here.
When my kids were in daycare we always got cute crafty gifts from them on Valentine’s Day. As a mom with no extra storage space, most of those crafts have gone the way of the recycling bin, but they are always super sweet to get. Now that the kids are older it’s hit-or-miss whether they bring anything home. This makes me feel like I could skip “doing” Valentine’s day, besides helping the girls write out 20 Valentines each to hand out to their class.
But, I still want to be a “fun” mom, so I like trying to do something for these non-holidays.
I’ve come up with a few quick and easy, last minute things you can do for your family on Valentine’s Day:
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Bring Back Elf on the Shelf
I know, if you don’t do the Elf, this doesn’t help you. But my kids love Elfie Sparkle, and she spends most of the year tucked up on the shelf in my closet, so bringing her out here and there (sometimes with a note from Santa) keeps the magic alive all year.
I search out templates or images online related to Elf on the Shelf and “holiday name” and either save them, then upload to Canva and create my own “letter”, or just print out something ready-made and leave it on the table for them in the morning. A Valentine’s Day Twist: find 2 leftover candy canes and lay them in the shape of a heart at the child’s place at the table.
A Candy Treat
What kid doesn’t like candy? My girls love candy, but they are still working on the last dregs of their Halloween treats. If you have bits of candy left from that overwhelming haul, pull out a few pieces and leave them at their place. A Valentine’s Day Twist: If they ask if it’s Halloween candy, go ahead and say Yes, but then let them eat it for breakfast!
If you don’t have candy left over (from Halloween or Christmas) go somewhere like Bulk Barn – or any store at this time of year really – and get them something you know they will like. Get them one higher quality chocolate or candy, so when they decide they don’t want it, you can sneak eat it at another time. Sometimes my kids even offer me a piece, which is amazing!
Plan an easy, heart shaped, dinner (or other meal, as it fits into your day)
This tip only works if you are regularly home for dinner – otherwise plan it on a weekend. We only eat at home two weeknights per week. And since Valentine’s Day is on a Wednesday this year, we won’t be doing this. Normally Wednesday would be fine, but my boss asked me to work this particular Wednesday (it’s my regular day off!)
In my opinion, the easiest heart-shaped fun dinner is pancakes. All you need is your favourite recipe and either a mould to pour the batter into, or the freehand skill to cut them after they’re cooked. You can also cut bread for heart shaped toast or sandwiches. (I’d use a cookie cutter for this one.) I’m sure there are a million ideas on Pinterest, but I haven’t yet jumped over there to check them out.
I also reached out to my readers to see if anyone out there had ideas for easy and fun Valentine’s things to fit into busy lives. I didn’t get much response (so hopefully this post will be popular!) but I’m going to share what I did get:
Kimberly from The Rantings of a Drama Queen’s Mum: We really don’t do much on Valentine’s Day. It’s in the middle of the week this year too. I’ll probably make a special dinner & maybe have a glass of wine. We got my 10 year old daughter a few presents. We also have a bunch of Valentine decorations that we put out. I’m thinking of doing a You tube video or me decorating for Valentine’s day. I decorate our mantel in the living room.
Jessica from our local Ladies Learning Code chapter: learningcodeygk is running a make your own Valentine’s Day card workshop. You can read more about that, and register, here. (I know this isn’t really a quick and easy idea, but it looked interesting to me, so I thought I’d share!)
Natasha from OMG Parenting: Leave fun notes for loved ones on heart shaped paper in surprise places.
Let me know what you do to celebrate on Valentine’s Day. (It’s okay if it’s elaborate and totally inappropriate to fit into my busy life. I still want to hear about it!) Maybe your comments will inspire me to plan further ahead next year!